We all have an idea in our head of what our dream relationship looks like. It’s the ideal that we’re constantly striving towards and trying to make work.
Whether happily in love or looking for the one, we still haven’t figured everything out. Instead, each astro sign is still missing that one thing from their love life. While we might feel like everything is in order, that probably isn’t the case. Every relationship can always be improved upon, even when we can’t see any flaws.
Some relationships are filled with endless issues that need to be solved. However, we’ll touch upon the most important issue that just has to be figured out ASAP. There is no point in trying to look towards the future when we haven’t taken care of the past. It’s time to finally tie up all of those loose ends in order to let things work.
Whether solo or taken, there is a major change that has to be made in our love lives. We simply don’t have the time to play anymore games, and instead have to get onto the real deal.
Get ready to figure out that one issue that is causing each astro sign to live in the past. Once we find that one thing that we’re missing, the world is sure to open up with endless opportunities!
Pisces Solo: Focus On The Future By Analyzing The Past
While you might be wanting to find yourself in a relationship, that just isn’t what you need right now. The current issue that you’re facing is your difficulties with the past. There is absolutely no way that you can move onto the future when you just can’t get over the past.
Before you’re able to move on with your love life, it’s time to completely analyze your past relationships. If thinking about your exes still brings on any negative emotions, then you simply aren’t ready to move on. Instead, you have to take some time and figure out anything that might still be holding you back. If you don’t, then you’re sure to make the same mistakes yet again.
Pisces Taken: Romantic Gestures
The one thing that just seems to be missing from your relationship is romantic gestures. It’s time to add some life back into your relationship by finding some new things to keep things fun. We recommend making your partner feel special by giving them some romantic surprises.
We’re sure this is exactly what you need to add that fire back into your relationship. This will allow your partner to recognize that you still care and are willing to make things work. The best part is that this barely takes any effort. If your relationship still means something to you, then this is absolutely what you have to do!
Leo Solo: Trust In Someone New
There is absolutely no way that you’re going to find yourself in a new relationship if you’re not willing to trust someone. Relationships are basically built on trust and open communication. If you’re not willing to open up to someone, you’re guaranteed to stay single forever.
It’s time to ignore any worries that you might have about things not working out. You will never be able to enter into a relationship with a guarantee that things will work out. Instead, it’s time to open up your heart to someone new and see where things go. While you might end up hurt, you’re guaranteed to end up completely alone if you never open up.
Leo Taken: Dependency
While everything seems to be going well in your relationship, let’s just say things could be better. There is still a barrier in between you and your partner that hasn’t been knocked down. Since both you and your boo are completely independent, it’s hard to rely on each other sometimes.
You’re afraid that if you become too dependent on your partner that you will become weak. However, you will never be able to enter the next stage of your relationship if you’re too intimidated to depend on your partner. This will allow for your boo to realize that you’re willing to open up completely.
Libra Solo: Realistic Standards
As a Libra, you’re used to seeking the best out of every situation you’re in. That’s why you’re only willing to end up in a relationship is it meets your standards. While this might not be what you want to hear, it’s time to make a change.
You need to adopt realistic standards when it comes to looking for love. You won’t be able to find someone who meets every aspect of the standards that you’re looking for. Instead, you need someone who is willing to meet most of the important qualities that you desire. If you keep waiting around for someone amazing to come along, there is no guarantee that they will.
Libra Taken: Foundation of Friendship
While you and your lover are basically on cloud nine, there is still a major problem. Your relationship was built on new found chemistry rather than friendship. The truth of the matter is that you and your boo are way more lovers than friends.
However, the key to making things work is when you’re basically dating your best friend. Yet, this doesn’t seem to be the case in your relationship. That’s why it’s time that you and your partner start to reconnect on a one-on-one level as friends. If you’re able to hit it off as authentic friends, then you’re sure to make things work as lovers.
Cancer Solo: A Healed Heart
It’s safe to say that there is absolutely no way that you will be able to move onto someone new with an aching heart. Even if you find someone willing to put all the pieces together, it’s so not their job. Instead, it’s time for you to fully heal rather than trying to cover up all of your cuts and bruises.
While it might be hard to do so, it’s what has to be done. If you think that pretending that everything is okay will work, you’re so off. Instead, you’re ignoring the actual issues at hand. It’s totally fine to spend some time alone to fully heal before jumping into a new relationship with someone else. You’re sure to repeat the same mistakes if you still haven’t learned from them.
Cancer Taken: Transparency
If you and your lover aren’t absolutely transparent with one another, everything is guaranteed to fall apart. While it might be fun at first, issues will begin to arise in almost no time. The last thing anyone wants is to find themselves in a relationship that isn’t completely honest.
We all have issues that we’re dealing with. It’s totally fine if you and your partner have a ton that you have to figure out. However, there is no way that you will be able to do so without being completely honest. Both people have to be on the same page in order for things to actually work and go somewhere. While you might want to pretend everything is okay, it’s so not.
Scorpio Solo: Loving One’s Self
The last thing that should be on your mind is ending up in yet another relationship. Your last one has definitely left you in disarray and it’s time that you figure out what to do next. That’s why we recommend that you shift your focus to falling in love with yourself.
Once you truly find out who you are and what type of life you want to live, the world is yours. Absolutely no one can get in the way of what you want. This will also give you some time to figure out what type of relationship you’re looking for. Rather than jumping into random relationships with people to figure out if they’re the one, you’ll be able to do so without dating basically everyone!
Scorpio Taken: Similar Values
While you and your lover seem to be able to connect with one another, there is still a major divide in your relationship. The truth is that you and your lover are on completely different pages when it comes to what you value. It’s time to have an honest conversation and come clean about what you truly value.
We predict that you’ll be surprised to find out that you’re on two completely different pages, and that’s probably why all of these issues are arising. You’ll have to figure out if you’re capable of meeting each other in the middle, or perhaps not. There is no point in waiting around and hoping for things to work out. Get ready to put in the work!
Sagittarius Solo: Support From Others
It seems like your last relationship made a complete mess and left a ton of people confused. You feel as if you can’t fully trust the people around you for their genuine advice. There is no way that you can jump into a new relationship when you feel like you have no support from your friends.
It’s time to sit down with them and figure out how they feel. You definitely don’t deserve to be left in the dark. We all need a little support from our friends when it comes to love, and that’s exactly what you need to find! If you realize that your friends just aren’t there for you when it comes to love, then it’s time to surround yourself with some new people.
Sagittarius Taken: Excitement
Sometimes all we really need is to add some fire right back into our love lives. If you and your partner have been together for a while, it’s simply time to add some excitement back into things. While you might want to pretend that everything is just as fun, it’s probably not.
Look into finding some fun new activities to do together. This might mean taking up a hobby or doing some activities together from the past. The key is basically to spend time together while trying something new. You shouldn’t be bummed out that your relationship is starting to feel a little comfortable. There are endless ways to add some life back into your relationship!
Aries Solo: Someone To Love
It’s safe to say that you are basically living your best life. You know exactly who you are and no one can get in the way of that. You also know exactly what you want out of life and how to get it. Since you have all of your business in order, it’s the perfect time to add someone new in the picture.
Try to put yourself out there and find someone new to hit things off with! You won’t be able to find yourself in a relationship if you’re not willing to put yourself out in the world. Prince Charming is guaranteed to never come along until you throw yourself back out into the world!
Aries Taken: Chemistry
It’s safe to say that you and your lover have entered the comfortable stage in your relationship. The excitement has slowly slipped away and you and your boo are basically an old married couple at this point. While this is a completely normal stage of a relationship, it doesn’t mean that it can’t change.
If you genuinely want for things to continue into the future, then it’s time to make a change. You’re going to have to figure out a way to add some chemistry back into your love life. A perfect way to do so is by going out for some intimate dates. The absolute best case scenario would be to enjoy a romantic getaway with only the two of you. You have the absolute power to take a hold of your relationship!
Virgo Solo: Willingness To Change
You won’t be able to experience something new if you’re not willing to change your old ways. If you continue to let your faults win over you, then everything will only continue to go downhill. Get ready to become the best version of yourself in order to be able to attract your dream partner.
Once you become the absolute best person that you can possibly be, only then will the world open up to you. This isn’t even about improving your love life, but rather simply improving yourself. We guarantee that in time you’ll feel like you can do absolutely anything that you put your mind to. Don’t be scared to experience everything that you’re capable of being!
Virgo Taken: Communication
The key to making things work long term is communication. We’re often scared of being truthful in fear of offending our someone or causing issues to arise. However, if you think that keeping things to yourself will make them disappear, you’re more than off.
Instead, it’s time to be a little more open with your boo over what’s going on. Your partner definitely also notices these issues and isn’t about to continue ignoring them. Complete transparency is the one thing that seems to be missing in your relationship. While the last thing that you want are issues, you better start working on them if they’re a byproduct of communication.
Gemini Solo: Fixing Current Issues
There is absolutely no way that you can jump into a new relationship until you fix current issues. While it totally makes sense that it’s stressful to deal with what’s at hand, it’s totally key. The last thing that you want is to jump into a new relationship when you have a million things from your past holding you back.
These issues will continue to constantly follow you until you deal with them directly. No one is able to run away from their problems, as much as they might want to. You’re only wasting time that you can be spending working on the present. If you want to eventually find love, then you better get working on the issues holding you back. If not, they’re sure to arise whenever you finally decide to move on.
Gemini Taken: Support
While you and your lover are more than happy, things could still be a little better. That’s because it’s time for you and your boo to become a little more supportive of one another. It totally might be hard to fully open up when you and your man are just on two different pages.
It’s time to become completely supportive of one another. While everything might be going well, it might not always be. When that point comes, you need to be able to fully depend on one another. Your relationship is sure to crumble into a million pieces if you aren’t able to get through the hard times. That’s why it’s time to figure out if you have what it takes to make things work.
Taurus Solo: Accepting The Past
There is no way that you’ll be able to fall in love with someone new when you still haven’t accepted the past. If you still experience any negative emotions or get anxious thinking about your past relationships, then you’re simply not ready to move on. There is still something completely holding you back that you have to figure out.
You have to fully come to terms with why things ended the way that they did. You also have to understand everything that you might’ve done wrong. If you’re not able to figure out your faults, you’re sure to do things the same way again in the future. The last thing that you want is to find yourself in yet another similar situation.
Taurus Taken: Willingness To Improve
It seems as if you and your lover are fully content with your relationship and truly don’t desire anything else. However, if you’re not working towards something positive, then something negative is sure to come back around. You and your lover have to be on the same page looking to improve your relationship if you truly want things to work.
A relationship is based on endless time and energy. If you’re willing to put in the work to improve things, then everything is sure to improve. If you and your partner continue to live in the past, then everything is so guaranteed to fall apart.
Capricorn Solo: Lack Of Potential Lovers
It seems like the main issue that you’re struggling in is your lack of potential lovers. While there are totally plenty of fish in the sea, it seems as if you can’t find any. This is the perfect time to jump completely out of your comfort zone and meet some new people.
The last thing that you want to do is limit yourself of potential lovers. Instead, open up your heart to new lovers and seeing what other people can offer you. This is also the time that you want to experience more things in life. There is no way that your dream lover will knock on your door (unless he’s the mailman). Instead, throw yourself out into the world and see who might be there for you.
Capricorn Taken: Similar Desires
It seems as if there is a growing divide between you and your lover. Through time, it just seems like you two are just on completely different pages. The last thing that you want is to let this divide continue to grow. Instead, you’ll have to have a talk about what you genuinely desire and want out of life.
While it might be difficult to do so at first, it’s totally key. Have that uncomfortable talk to finally figure out what the issues are. We have a feeling that you and your partner simply have completely different desires that are pushing you apart. See if you’re still on the same page and have a similar idea of what the future of your relationship is!
Aquarius Solo: Working On Issues
You are absolutely the last person who should be jumping into a new relationship. This is because you have a million issues at hand that you just haven’t figured out yet. Instead of constantly stressing over the future, it’s time to deal with the past.
We guarantee that you have the strength within you to deal with all of these problems. If you think that pretending that everything is okay will work, you’re so off. Instead, you have to have a conversation with yourself over what the problems at hand are. Only then will you be able to fully move on into the future and find someone new. No one will be able to help you figure out these issues except for yourself!
Aquarius Taken: The Truth
This is key in a relationship. Sometimes all we have to fully hold things together is the truth. Once you and your partner feel as if it’s okay to lie to one another, then you’ve reached the downfall. Since it’s not too late to make a change, you better get on improving things ASAP.
Take some time and talk to your lover about the status of your relationship. The truth is the only thing that has the power to bring you and your partner back together. While you might want to pretend that everything is okay, it’s so not. Start by being completely honest with your partner, and he’s sure to reciprocate this gesture in time!
Source: The Talko