So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame Beloved because everything is so magical and synchronistic. You’ve never experienced a love like this. Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.
Then, wham, something sneaky happens and it pulls your world apart, and it pulls you two apart…but mainly, it pulls YOU apart! Maybe it turns out that he’s not ready, he can’t commit, he’s got another relationship or has a wife and kids he won’t leave. You feel stuck, like you’re struggling to stay afloat, because you’ve never loved like this before – it makes you feel like you are going crazy!
At some point, he’s no longer in the picture. Something is keeping you two apart… What is this crazy cosmic fate? Do you still have a chance, will he come back? Perhaps this could be a test from the universe? Like, he really could be your Twin and this is just some obstacle to overcome…
You likely already know that Twin Flames are simply a representation or reflection of ourselves, of own self-love. So, perhaps you can heal or fix something within yourself so he’ll come running back. Right?
So, you ask, “Is he my Twin Flame, or just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?”
I hope to help you. I know it’s not an easy journey, and I have been there before. The Twin Flame Counterfeit is a type of karmic soulmate (you can read my blog What is a Karmic Soulmate? here) who is here to wake you up and plop you into your Twin Flame Awakening.
how do i find my soulmateBeing able to know if the love between you and someone you deeply are attracted to and care about is real is obviously an important question to ask. If you’re asking How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame , you can click on the link to read that post to prep and support you for the information contained in this blog.
Unfortunately, there is no litmus test to know whether or not someone is your Twin Flame, and boy do I wish there were! I joke that it would be nice if there were a pee-in-a-cup lab test to tell if he was or was not your Twin Flame. It would save us lots of time, pain, and suffering, and wouldn’t that be nice! I could also patent that product and make a lot of money, because we’ve all gone through this at one time or another. So many women come to me over and over again with the same problem and if the solution were so simple I’d be a multi-multi millionaire!
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I commonly get asked “Is he my Twin Flame, or just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” so I’ll attempt to respond with this with a checklist below!
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HE (OR SHE) IS YOUR TWIN FLAME IF:
1) He’s still in the picture and you’ve seen each other’s glory and you’ve seen each other’s $h*t!
2) You’re willing to let him go, even if he is amazing, if he doesn’t treat you like the goddess you truly are with his full available presence
3) Your inner child is healed and has cleared emotional and health imbalances, abandonment wounds, and abuse traumas
4) You can surrender to the moment, and being apart doesn’t make you crazy, it feels like a lightness even though you may miss him
5) All (or at least most) of your love addictions are cleared and resolved
6) The love between you both is balanced, where both partners love each other equally, perhaps in different ways
7) Both partners are emotionally available, with the man and woman available to express fears, joys, sadness, etc
8) Both parties are on an Ascension Path and are focused on self-discovery, soul evolution, spiritual connection, and service
9) Neither partner is involved in a marriage or past relationship that is unresolved, which would leak sexual energy from the Twin Flame counterpart
10) Both members are energetically clear and take care of their own healing in body, mind and spirit. This may look different for each member (one may be a raw vegan and the other a meat eating body builder!) but both people have brought a lot of light into their bodies
11) Your partner aligns you to be in service, step further into self-love, self-empowerment, and the Sacred Union supports your growth
SIGNS OF THE TWIN FLAME COUNTERFEIT:
1) Constant mulling over in your mind, “Is he my Twin Flame?” – that’s a sure sign that you’re not ready yet for Twin Flame Love. Work on clearing your self-doubt in the 3rd chakra.
2) Constant checking in with psychics and energy healers to make him want you back or being hopeful he’ll want you back if he has gone away
3) VERY likely he’s a TFC if he’s involved with another woman and hasn’t showed up for the relationship fully
4) Emotional unavailability on his part
5) Emotional over-availability on your part
6) Feeling insecure or unsafe around your partner but proceeding anyway
7) Jumping in quickly into the relationship without feeling safe within your self, your sacred sexuality, your finances, and your own power
8) Jumping into the relationship to avoid taking action and power over your own life
9) Using the relationship as a distraction that focuses your attention away from your career, spiritual mission, and being of service
10) You feel like your whole world would be turned upside-down if he decides to leave you/doesn’t come back
11) You don’t fully love yourself unless he loves you back (conditional self-love vs. unconditional self-love)
It’s better to face the energy within yourself first, work on it, heal it, and step into Twin Flame Love from self-love.
Do this sooner than later and I promise you won’t regret it… The longer one waits to prolong the self-healing, the harder it gets to attract and keep their Twin Flame.
Know that everything can be healed. You have the strength within, and you can seek the support you need. You are always divine and lovable, even if one specific human you thought might be your Twin Flame might not be there for you….
Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself up and true love will find you!
Easier said than done, right? I know I beat myself up when I went through my own Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul with my Twin Flame Counterpart, so I know it’s not easy!
However, deep healing came through unconditional self-love and learning to be compassionate. Now I am with my incredible sacred counterpart, and I am insured that if he were to ever leave (as in life there are no guarantees!), I would be alright because I am a powerful self-healer!
Take action clearing your Twin Flame Love Blocks… each of us has certain karmas and possibly past life experiences to clear and heal. There’s a reason for everything…When you heal yourself, the world heals, and so does your Twin Flame.